one of the children after the fiancée saw what type of father his fiancée had and the marriage that was scheduled for May 2006 has never been held to date. That the marriage has been characterized by mistreatment, embarrassing the petitioner in the presence of relatives, visitors, friends and children. That the respondent has exhibited cruelty and selfishness and ungrateful attitudes towards the petitioner, despite the petitioner’s loving and kind deeds, general disposition and words towards the respondent for example a) knowing that the petitioner has a heart problem the respondent has been physically assaulting and over quarrelsome aggravating the petitioner’s problem b) the petitioner saved the respondent when he was very sick, despite resistance and strong opposition and abuses from his relatives who had preferred endangering his life when he was unconscious and were taking him to witch doctors c) the petitioner contributed money to buy a minibus, but the respondent mismanaged the money spending large sums on other women and excluded the petitioner from the business d) In 1998, the petitioner started a general trade import business and when the business prospered, the petitioner invited the respondent to join in the business booming. That the respondent started unnecessary conflict until the respondent kicked the petitioner out of the business and the respondent took away all the property acquired from the business. That the petitioner worked for the East African Community and also Uganda Government in the Customs department for a long time and contributed more to the family assets than the respondent but the respondent registered most of the assets in his sole names and excluded the petitioner from them. She enlisted the business concerns of the family, see paragraph 15 of the petition. That the respondent withdrew from fulfilling his family obligations like paying school fees and buying food at home saying that he was no longer part of that family and that children and the petitioner could fend for themselves. That he was not getting anything from the children and yet he paid school fees as an investment (paragraph (17) of the [petition) among others. She prayed that her marriage be dissolved on the grounds of adultery, frequent desertion and cruelty or a decree for judicial separation be granted in the alternative. She also prayed that family property be shared between the petitioner and the respondent to enable the petitioner have a home and an income to cater for herself and the children who are still at the university. She prayed that the costs of the application be awarded.