The meaning of the terms “bride price” and “dowry”
Before I proceed with the legal arguments advanced by both counsel in their submissions, I
consider it necessary to determine the meaning of the terms ‘bride price’ and ‘dowry’ if you are
to avoid confusion. This is because the two terms are sometimes used interchangeably, which is
not correct. The two terms are different. The research carried out from the dictionaries, text
books in those countries where the practices exist, the terms bride price and dowry, were
described as stated bellow:
Firstly, the terms ‘bride price’ and ‘dowry’ refer to payments made at the time of marriage in
many cultures, in Asia and Africa. Bride price is typically paid by the groom or the groom’s
family to the bride’s family. Dowry is typically paid by the bride’s family to the bride or to the
wedded couple. Thus bride price and dowry are not necessarily the converse of each other.
However, in the twentieth century, dowry payments in South Asia have increasingly been
demanded by and paid to the groom’s family (and not just to the bride or the wedded couple).
This suggests a usage of the term dowry to mean a groom price, the reverse of a bride price.
Bride price and dowry need not be mutually exclusive. Marriage transfers in both directions can
occur simultaneously. A complex set of norms may then govern the nature and the magnitude of
payments in either direction.
Secondly, in Wikipedia, the term bride price sometimes known as bride wealth is described as “an amount of money or property or wealth paid by the groom or his family to the parents
of a woman upon the marriage of their daughter to the groom.
On the other hand, dowry is paid to the groom, or used by the bride to help establish the
new household, and dower, which is property settled on the bride herself by the groom at
the time of marriage.) In the anthropological literature, bride price has often been
explained in market terms; as payment made in exchange for loss to the family of the bride
of the bride’s labor and fertility within her kin group. The agreed bride price is generally
intended to reflect the perceived value of the girl or young woman.
The same culture may simultaneously practice both dowry and bride price. Most
traditional marriage ceremonies, to be valid, depend on the payment of the bride price.
Issues:
Submissions by counsel for the parties
The petitioners first argue that the demand for a bride price by parents of the bride from
prospective sons-in-law as a condition precedent to a valid customary marriage perpetuates
conditions of inequality between the husband and wife. Article 31 of the Constitution mandates
that “women shall have the right to equal treatment with men...” As equals, the petitioners
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